4 more weeks...

I have not posted for quite a while and today, I finally found some time to write...my wedding will be in FOUR weeks time from today...things are starting to get chaotic...my in-laws are starting to panic and this is making me nervous. I think I have got everything covered but everything seems too perfect...when you think you've got "everything" covered, something else comes up that is NOT covered...haha...although I keep going over my list of things to do again and again...hhmm...seems to be done, but still I can't help feeling I've missed out on some things...but can't seem to figure out what I've missed out...sigh...I think all brides & grooms go through this...

I am trying my best to stay calm and rational...cos once we panic, everything will be messy...now that my in-laws have started panicking, they are not thinking rationally already, can't blame them, this is the first wedding in the family for this generation and some more he is the eldest grandchild and eldest son in the family...sigh...why do we put ourselves through such madness for a ceremony...BUT, this is a VERY important ceremony, a once-in-a-lifetime ceremony that unites 2 people...2 families together...I thank God that my family is not getting themselves involved in the wedding preparation. They are just going to relax and be at the ceremony and enjoy themselves...stress free :) that should be the way...let the bride & groom kau tim, cos it their wedding after all...why can't my in-laws just sit back & relax and TRUST that we will do a good job in planning the wedding...

For his relatives to voice out and give suggestions & opinions are fine, and we will take them into consideration if it is a good suggestion...but if it is not what we want, why not just let us decide whether we want to do it or not? Why must they insist or butt-in to our preparation and make changes when we have already prepared/set our minds to something else. It just gives me more headache to make changes...we cannot please everyone...there must be a limit...it is best that we do what we feel comfortable doing...now I understand why some couples break off their wedding during the preparation...the stress from family, in-laws and relatives can be really bad...I can't seem to gain weight no matter how much I eat...my hair is dropping, dunno if it is becos it is getting too long or becos I changed shampoo recently or becos of the stress, sometimes I can't sleep at nights...although I seem fine on the outside...very calm, very relaxed, but I am not...I don't want to seem stressful for everyone's sake...I want to make sure I keep the situation in control and I want them to remain calm, if I panic, everyone will panic with me...cos I am the bride...but then again, when they see that I am so calm and relaxed, they panic more because they think I am not doing anything...hahahaha...but in actual fact, I planned 95% of the whole wedding.

Some of his family & relatives actually asked me why I am so thin, I told them, I am stressed for the wedding, they ask me why? what am I so busy with? what am I doing that is so stressful? huh???...hahaha...I didn't know what to say? I was thinking, what question is that? what why? cos I am busy planning the wedding, that's why...but they actually didn't know that I planned everything from A-Z...all they did was go crazy with their guest list & invitation cards and they think the whole wedding ceremony evolves around their guest list only...hahaha...the guest list is the only thing in a wedding. Everything happens on its own...hehehe...ya...I wish! Sigh...so...4 weeks...28 days...672 hours................................................ ..........*fingers crossed*...

Ye Olde Smokehouse, CH

Ye Olde Smokehouse

We went to Cameron Highlands 2 weeks ago for our pre-wedding photo shoot. Why CH? Well, simply because of the temperature there. I initially wanted to take our pre-wedding shots at the beach, but it would have been super HOT. Both Sam & I sweat a lot, imagine me with make up on and sweating like mad...eeewwww...what an ugly sight it would have been. So Sam suggested somewhere cooling like Bukit Tinggi, but after I spoke with Zung from The Photoz, he suggested CH and told me that The Smokehouse & The Lakehouse would be nice and even the scenery at CH would be better compared to BT, and I thought, ya, why not? I am more comfortable with CH and have not been there for a long time. Then, Sam had this idea of asking his friends to join us for this trip to also take some group wedding photos with us. Cool...so we started off with reserving a few rooms...then we ended up booking the whole hotel because it only had 13 rooms for 33 guests in total and since we could come up with a group of 33 people, and could get a good discount, we booked the place for 2 nights, Saturday-Monday, and arranged for the photo shoot for Sat & Sun. My brother & family also joined us for a night.

Me & Jern

Transport arrangements were made and everyone was excited about the trip and the photo shoot especially the girls. I am impressed that some of them went all out to buy dresses for this photo shoot...some of the guys also went out and bought a suit...hahaha...we were really touched and happy. Although there were some things that pissed us off, but those are things that I will not allow to ruin my trip and happy thoughts and memories of this trip, so I shall not mention them or talk about it here...

Jern enjoying himself...walking around the hotel...

Before, the photo shoot, I already expected that we'd have a difficult time doing the shoot, but I never expected that we would be that BAD...hahaha...we were really really bad and stiff. We were so unnatural :D Well, now we know...The photographer usually takes natural shots of couples talking, playing & having fun, but we were so stiff and had nothing to say...hahaha...he was like...ok, converse...and we would both look at each other and laugh cos we have nothing to say...hahaha...we could not think of anything to say at all...to the extent we started singing nursery rhymes instead...it was fun but I was hoping for natural shots, but we couldn't, so ours will be posey shots :( but I hope it turns out ok...hahaha...

My bouquet for the photo shoot

The whole trip was fun and I think everyone enjoyed themselves and since we had the whole hotel to ourselves,...actually, Thank Goodness we had the whole hotel to ourselves, we were soooo noisy. On the first night there, they drank so much, most of them were drunk and they were shouting sooo loud. Running & walking around so loudly. The Smokehouse is more than 70 years old, so the floors creak and we can hear the room next door very clearly...hahaha...the moment we arrived we gave all the couples a warning...please "do it" QUIETLY cos ur neighbours will hear you loud and clear...muahahahaha...I went to bed early cos I had to make sure I have enough sleep to continue the photo shoot the next day, but I couldn't sleep because of all the noise and ended up sleeping after everyone K.O. and the whole hotel was quiet. I was so worried that I would wake up the next day to find the hotel all wrecked and the furniture broken...luckily they didn't break anything, I was surprised...hahaha...it was madness, but the hotel was so accommodating, they gave such excellent service, we were so impressed. They thought we were a bunch of fun people. I think they probably needed some excitement since CH is such a boring place :P They did not give us "the" look, in fact, they were so friendly and nice and so accommodating. I only have good things to say about their service.

Foggy evening on Saturday after a drizzle...

I hope everyone had fun, cos Sam & I did and we enjoyed ourselves so much. It was a good trip :)

Popcorn & Coke

I watched 3 blockbuster movies recently - Transformers, Harry Potter & the Order of the Phoenix & Die Hard 4.0.

Watching Transformers was like reliving my childhood memories...Transformers was very much part of my childhood, just like Thundercats (hahaha). Watching the characters in the cartoon series change and transform, it was amazing and exciting at that young age. This was more than 20 years ago? Gee! Am I really that old already?...hahaha...After sooooo many years, they have now made it into a movie. With the current visual effects technology it should be good and boy, was it GOOD!!! It was so GOOD that I didn't dare blink in case I'd miss out on anything...hahaha...I watched with awe and amazement. Opening my eyes wide enough to make sure I absorbed every single image. I cannot describe how much I LOVE this movie. It was just sooooo good...the CGI effects was fantastic! This DVD is a MUST BUY to keep, so that I can watch it again and again and again and again and again............

Then came Harry Potter and we read in the newspapers that it managed to win Transformers at the Blockbuster...surprised, we thought, hey, we should watch this movie to see how good it actually is...and we were disappointed. It was no where near as good as Transformers, although both movies are very different, BUT at least Harry Potter should be as good as it's previous series...but Oh! So disappointing...this is the worst series amongst all...not funny, not exciting, in other words...boring...and a couple, sitting a few seats behind made it worse. They were acting like as if they were at home, just the two of them...the female was giggling a lot but they were also arguing a lot and the guy was a vulgar word machine all the way, I thought I was in a nuthouse. They were behaving badly, I thought they were crazy >:( Sigh, this was the worse I have encountered.

Last night we went to watch Die Hard 4.0 and...Oh my! It was really super Die Hard..."Khang Khor See"...hahaha...even with an F-35, shooting missiles at him, he really just CANNOT die...hahahahaha...BUT, it was a pretty good movie...enjoyable and entertaining, comparing with Harry Potter, it really made Harry Potter a worse movie.

So, in my opinion...watch Transformers & "Khang Khor See" 4.0 in the cinema and don't bother watching Harry Potter, but if you wanna watch it for the sake of continuing the series, then just buy a DVD... :)

Creepy Crawly

Went to Bangkok 2 weeks ago with my bro, wife and my nephew...stayed at a hotel for the first 3 nights cos my sis was moving into her new house that weekend itself. So, we stayed at a hotel for the convenience of shopping and food...then on the 4th day of our trip, we moved to my sister's new house to stay there for 2 nites...I would be sleeping on the floor in the master bedroom together with my sis & bro-in-law (Joe)...so, while I was getting ready to shower, I saw this gigantic spider crawl out of their walk-in-wardrobe (which leads to the bathroom)...and with super fast reflexes, with my hair standing on end...I grabbed a tealight cup from a nearby storage box and trapped it and I immediately jumped onto my sister's bed with goosebumps...

...EEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...!!! Damn it was gross...

My sis & Joe was out running errands, so I ran to the guest room and asked my bro to come help me get rid of it...and WHAT WAS I THINKING...he came in and said...let it go lah!!! It is not harmful...Walau!!! I should have known...I was about to go search for newspapers when I remembered that Joe has arachnaphobia...hahaha...even the tiniest spider will send him running off screaming...hahaha...I remember a time when he was driving us in the car when a small little spider was outside his driver's side window, he froze and nearly got us killed...after parking his car, he made my sister go out to get rid of the spider before he dare to open the car door to get out...hahaha...it was quite funny. So I deliberately waited for them to come home so that I could show him this gigantic spider that was lurking in his wardrobe in his BRAND NEW HOUSE...hahaha...that would probably give him nightmares...but in the end, he didn't have the guts to walk into his room and asked me help him get rid of the spider...hahaha...and this is how BIG the spider is................





I took pictures of the spider with my cameraphone...hahaha...while taking these pictures, I had goosebumps all over...I had to take evidence to show Joe lah!!!...hahaha...

I asked them for newspapers...I took 1" thick newspaper, rolled it up into a 5" thick BAT...took it upstairs with me...stared at the spider...squat there looking at this poor disgusting insect which I am about to kill...it took me about 5 minutes to build up my courage...then holding the BAT with my right hand, I placed my left hand on the cup, getting ready to lift it up, and...WHOP!!! AAaaahhhh!!! *clang clang clang*...the cup fell, but luckily it didnt break...and flattened on the floor was the poor spidey...I took it downstairs and showed Joe the flattened spider and he nearly fainted...HAHAHAHA...

poor spider...

This is sooooo cute...

Mission accomplished

Went to KL over the weekend for one mission...to pick my wedding & evening gowns for the photo shoot and for the actual day...also to try and find a suit for Sam...



Result ~ MISSION Accomplished!!! Woo Hoo!!!



We arrived on Thursday and we had an early night...then on Friday, we walked around KLCC to try and find a suit for Sam...our intention was to find a proper 3-pc suit with vest and all for the photo shoot, but we couldn't find any, but, instead found a really nice casual/semi formal 2-pc suit which would be nice for the 32 dinner on the 27th. We didn't buy it immediately cos we wanted to look around first to make sure that this is the best...so we walked around...then decided to walk around Starhill, just in case...but it was lagi worse...hahaha...so, we thought, it is ok, can go back to KLCC tomorrow after the CoverShots appt to get the suit la...

The appointment with CoverShots was @ 2pm...but we were early so we arrived at CoverShots at 1pm to meet Yvonne - the nice lady whom I have been liaising with all these while at CoverShots - she ran through our package with us again just to make sure we know & understand what we would be getting. My package includes two wedding gowns and two evening gowns for the photo shoot. As for the event day, I am allowed to use one of the wedding gowns and both the evening gowns. OK...so, it was time to try on the gowns and feel like a princess...HAHAHA...

She showed us their available range of gowns...although not many, I would say, maybe about 30-35 wedding gowns and 15 evening gowns to choose from only. But, for me, it was good enough, sometimes having too many varieties to choose from will be too much of a headache...with such a small range, it is easier to decide, which was why it only took us about an hour to choose my gowns. I've heard ppl taking up to 3 hours to choose their gowns...


I only tried on about 10 wedding gowns and only 5 evening gowns. From there, the decision was rather easy...hehehe...I LOVED the very first wedding gown that I tried on, it was brand new, no one has worn it yet and it was simple and nice, silky and soft, BUT heavy because of it's long train...but besides the train, I love the simple design...so that was confirmed...it took me a while to decide on the 2nd gown. Yvonne advised me that I should pick a second without a train, which I preferred also...but I tried on those without train, and they all looked funny or weird or too plain on me...so in the end, I chose the 2nd gown with a train as well...which I really loved too (Sam picked this gown), it's just that it also has a train...but it is ok la...so, mission accomplished...I was tired but REALLY HAPPY...then I was thinking, I only spent less than 2 hours at CoverShots and I was damn tired already, imagine how tiring it would be on my actual wedding day...oh my! hahahaha...


After CoverShots, we went to get the suit at KLCC and went to Dome for COFFEE...after coffee, we went home and took a looooooooong nap...LOL...


I am glad to get this finally done...can't wait for the photo shoot at Cameron Highlands...We've booked The Smokehouse and I have obtained permission from the Strawberry Park Resort and the Lakehouse to take our photos there, so our pictures will mainly be taken at these 3 premises...should be fun :)